Do You Put Registry Info on Wedding Invitations? Etiquette, Wording, and What to Do Instead

So, you're deep in the throes of wedding planning, and you've hit a bit of an etiquette snag: should you put your registry info on your wedding invitations? It's a question that trips up almost every couple, and you're definitely not alone in wondering.

Below, we'll cover the etiquette reasoning, where to put your registry information instead, and how to word it politely if you do need to share it directly.

Short answer: Traditionally, registry information is not included directly on wedding invitations, as it can feel gift-forward. Most couples share registry details on their wedding website, through family and friends, or on shower invitations instead.

Why Registry Information Usually Doesn't Go on Wedding Invitations

In the world of wedding etiquette, including registry information directly on your invitation is generally considered a faux pas. The reasoning is simple: your wedding invitation is a heartfelt invitation to share in your joy, not a prompt to purchase something.

Including registry details on the invitation itself can come across as presumptuous, like you're more interested in the gifts than in celebrating your commitment with the people you love. It puts the focus on receiving rather than celebrating.

That said, there are exceptions. In some cultures and regions, including registry information is perfectly normal and even expected. If that's the case for your wedding, don't stress about it! Follow what feels right for your community and family.

Where to Put Registry Information Instead

Just because registry info doesn't belong on the invitation doesn't mean your guests won't find it. There are plenty of better places to share this information, and your guests will know to look.

Your wedding website (the best option)

This is the perfect spot for registry details. Most wedding website templates have a dedicated "Gifts" or "Registry" section, and guests expect to find this information there. Include your website URL on your invitation, and guests who want to give a gift will find their way.

Bridal shower invitations

It's perfectly acceptable, even expected, to include registry information on bridal shower invitations. The focus of these events is often gift-giving, so sharing where you're registered makes sense in this context.

Word of mouth

Let your close family and wedding party know where you're registered, and they can spread the word when guests ask. This is how it was done for decades before wedding websites existed, and it still works.

Details cards or enclosure cards (with caution)

Some couples include a small details card with their invitation that mentions the wedding website, where guests can find registry information along with other logistics. This is a softer approach than putting registry info directly on the invitation, but it still puts gift details in the envelope. Use your judgment based on your guest list and family expectations.

Should Registry Info Go on Save the Dates?

No, this is even more sensitive than invitations. Save the dates go out 6 to 8 months before the wedding, and at that stage, guests are just being asked to hold the date. Mentioning gifts that early can feel premature and presumptuous.

If you're including your wedding website on your save the date (which is common), guests who are eager gift-givers may find your registry there on their own. But don't call attention to it; save the date cards should focus on the date, location, and excitement of the upcoming celebration.

How to Word Registry Information Politely

Whether you're adding registry info to your wedding website, a details card, or even (in cultural contexts where it's appropriate) your invitation, the wording matters. Here's how to do it gracefully.

Polite wording templates

For wedding websites:

"Your presence at our wedding is the greatest gift of all. For those who have asked, we're registered at [Store Name] and [Store Name]."

For enclosure cards:

"For those who have inquired about gift ideas, we are registered at [Store Name]."

For shower invitations:

"[Bride's name] is registered at [Store Name] and [Store Name]."

For honeymoon funds or cash registries:

"Your presence is present enough! But for those who have asked, we've set up a honeymoon fund at [Link]."

What not to say

Avoid language that sounds demanding or transactional:

• "We expect gifts from..." or "Please purchase from..."

• "No boxed gifts" (sounds presumptuous)

• "Cash only" or "Money preferred" (too direct)

• Listing specific items you want (save this for the registry itself)

The key is to frame registry information as a response to guests who have asked, not as an expectation.

What About "No Gifts, Please"?

If you're not interested in receiving gifts, that's perfectly fine! However, putting "No Gifts, Please" directly on your invitation can feel awkward. It acknowledges gifts while declining them, which some guests find confusing or even insulting.

Better approaches:

• Mention it on your wedding website: "Your presence is the only gift we need."

• Let your close family and wedding party spread the word

• Suggest a charity donation in lieu of gifts if there's a cause you care about

Most guests will get the hint, and those who still want to give something will find a way, which is their prerogative.

How guests usually ask about registries anyway

Here's the thing: guests who want to give a gift will find your registry. They'll check your wedding website, ask family members, or simply text you or your partner directly.

That last option (guests texting with questions) is more common than you might expect. "Where are you registered?" "Can I bring a gift to the wedding or should I mail it?" "Do you prefer cash or something from your list?"

If you'd rather not field these questions yourself (especially when they come in at 10pm or during your final dress fitting), tools like Daisy Chat can help. Daisy Chat acts as a guest concierge—guests can text with questions about your registry, logistics, dress code, whatever—and get instant answers without you being in the loop. It takes the awkwardness out of the "where are you registered?" conversation entirely.

Tips for your wedding website registry page

Since your wedding website is the best place for registry information, here's how to set it up gracefully:

1. Create a dedicated page: Label it "Gifts" or "Registry" so it's easy to find.

2. Use friendly language: Lead with gratitude, not expectations.

3. Link directly to your registries: Make it easy for guests; don't make them search.

4. Offer variety: Include links to different stores, a honeymoon fund, or a charity option.

5. Thank your guests: Express appreciation upfront for their generosity and thoughtfulness.

Remember, It's Your Wedding

At the end of the day, the decision is yours. If including registry information directly on your invitation feels right for your wedding (because of cultural norms, family expectations, or personal preference), go for it. Just be thoughtful about the wording.

Frequently asked questions

Is it okay to have multiple registries?

Absolutely! Multiple registries let you cater to different budgets and preferences. You can register at a few different stores, include a honeymoon fund, or add a charity donation option for guests who prefer to give experiences or support a cause you care about.

When should I create my registry?

Create your registry shortly after you get engaged or set your wedding date. This gives guests who are eager to celebrate, especially at engagement parties or showers, ample time to purchase gifts.

Is it appropriate to include registry information on wedding shower invitations?

Yes! Shower invitations are the one place where registry information is expected and appropriate. The focus of these events is often gift-giving, so sharing where you're registered makes perfect sense.

Can I ask for cash gifts instead of traditional gifts?

Directly asking for cash can still feel a bit forward to some guests. A softer approach: create a honeymoon fund or "Newlywed Fund" where guests can contribute toward your future together. Mention it on your wedding website or let close family spread the word.

What if guests ask me directly where I'm registered?

Tell them! When guests ask directly, it's perfectly fine to share your registry information. The etiquette concern is about unsolicited gift prompts on formal invitations, not about answering genuine questions.